Caring; Checking In

So much Stuff is going on in libraries, on our streets, and in our homes. I’ll leave it there because, if you know you know; no need to linger on the details. So much of it is big stuff that is dangerous to ignore and frightful to consider. And, impossible not to care.

it How are you caring for yourself and your community in the midst of it all?

Are you remembering the system is broken, not you?

To really feel better – to be better – we have to do the work to fix the system. That may mean taking to the streets, creating protest art, donating time, talent or cash, or it may be connecting with your people. Someone suggested putting notes neighbor’s mailboxes, just to say hello, maybe provide a little information about yourself, and begin to build bridges. Others talk about routine potluck dinners or joining a book group at the library or coffee shop.

Have you ever read a book aloud with a friend or two? Throw it some popcorn and it’s pure book joy.

Let’s keep finding ways to let ourselves shine. In my lexicon, to shine is to love out loud.

How are you caring for others around you? I’ve been writing letters to friends since Covidtimes and it seems they’re don’t stress a person in the same way a well-meaning text or DM does. Those letters may sit in a mailbox for days with no notification announcing their presence. Then, the receiver smiles when they find that handwritten, paper hug.

What have you found to say, other than ‘how are you’ to check in with your friends and family? I’d love to know!

Remember, we can’t care for ourselves if we’re not caring for our community, and vice versa. Besides, we’re not broken: the system is.

But really, how are you?

Be well and do good

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